If she could stand, she would undoubtedly comprise all of 5 feet. Slowly, age and physical limitations have taken her ability to walk, then stand and the wheelchair that she once could move can no longer be done on her own. Yet on the inside “Grace” towers, a living witness to a profound spirituality, her inspiring reverence and appreciation for the Eucharist is faithfully compelling. In her suffering, she has shared not only of her struggle but of the gift and essentialness of communion and community.
It was about 6 years ago in the beginning of our Eucharistic Ministry to the nursing homes, that my husband and I first met Grace. My husband, having left Harvard when our economy took a major downturn was initially unsure of this assignment but more than ready to feel of use again. While he was certain that he could impart a bit of company and joy to those he visited in fulfilling this ministry, he was not prepared for what he would receive in return. His week spent researching the classifieds and applying for new jobs, would prove relentless with the exception of Sunday. Always faithful, but at times lukewarm in intensity, Sunday was the day he reserved for God. Little did he know that God had so much more in store for him, by this simple step forward in faith.
While wanting to go with him in these first few visits, I prayerfully held back, feeling God was preparing John for something special. So, with pyx in hand and a head full of concerns I watched as John hurriedly left the house, unquestionably working on the following day’s to-do list. However, no matter how he left the house, one could not help but notice that he never returned the same. In its place, peace and joy had consumed his countenance and he practically overflowed with a renewed strength. For, during this otherwise incredibly stressful time, God had opened a window.
After a bit of time, of observing all of this, the day came when with hopeful expectation he suddenly asked, “Would you like to go with me today? There is someone I would like you to meet.” This was the moment I had patiently waited for. “Of course, lead the way!”. Though he carried a handwritten list of names and rooms, with notes beside each, it would be completely unnecessary. He knew each one, and wasted no time in introducing me as we entered with a rap at the door.
As we neared the last room he paused, grabbed my hand and a huge smile overtook his face. This was the one he so eagerly had wanted to share, the one that had inspired the transformation that I witnessed.
“Hi Grace!”, it’s John from St. Peter’s, “I brought my lovely wife Elizabeth with me today..”
“It is really SO good to see you, thank you for coming and making time for me..I cannot tell you what this means”, she exclaimed.
Then chatting for a few min about our families, health and week, John asked “Grace, would you like to receive communion?”
“Oh, Yes! I REALLY need that!” , with hands clasped and eyes closing immediately in prayer.
“We all do Grace, we all do..” he answered without hesitation.
Have you ever considered Eucharistic ministry? Be prepared, the life transformed by Christ today, might be your own!
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I actually have considered this ministry. There are retirement / nursing homes in my neighborhood, and my parish is nearby–all within walking distance. From those who I talked to, there is so much joy they have bringing the body of Christ to those who cannot make it to Mass. Of course there is always reason why this is not my season to do it, but I know when the time is right, I’ll be looking forward to this.
I actually did consider this ministry before. There are so many retirement / nursing homes in my area, and the parish is nearby as well (all within walking distance). In these homes there are so many that can no longer make it to Mass to receive the Eucharist. I would love to share that joy with others.
Of course, there are numerous of reasons why no may not be my season, but I’m looking forward to when I have the opportunity.
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The elderly have so much to teach us- joy, experience, mercy and their love of God just to name a few. Always pray about it- but if yes is the answer, you will not regret it! 🙂